Oh, Friendship !!
What it means to me???.
Friendship.. It means to me: honor, trust, love, acceptance, supporting all over the years,...,......etc .
to talk about friendship and what it means to me or to anyone else, gives to me an inspiration,
it's very valuable issue, it's very exciting to have some deep thoughts from here and from there...
for me, to write or to talk about friendship is much bigger, more important and much sweeter than any other topic -dialogue-, its much deeper and much stronger because it's like brother-sisterhood relationship, so it's not that kind of physical attraction,
Friendship -in my opinion- is...
beyond physical desires, beyond malice, beyond hate, beyond jelous, also it's not an internet chatting or saying always hi/bye to each other!!!, for me, to have friends means like to have Angels in yr life.
whom are always there for you.. for better and of course for worse, giving you a shoulder to cry on, sharing with you the happiness moments in yr life and the saddest moments too, listening to you when you need someone listen, accepting you as who you are.. whom are always around you even through their souls in good times and in bad either !!..
Here,
In our real life , there are a lot of people coming to others lives under the name of "FRIENDSHIP" while they are absolutely far from the meaning of true friends !!! and in this life day after day, year after year.. I sometimes see numbers of people whom are very bad example of friendship..!!! whom are always give others a horrible picture of Friendship !! ,to give a bad example of being true friends!!,it might be because of their careless side, or ignorance which they show, or maybe because they are so selfish ,However., I know there's no perfect person because we all human being. so we all make mistakes, we all get hurt some times and do hurt others sometimes eather !!!, but not all of us brave enough to learn from our mistakes , or to admit it or to say sorry or even to try fixit it then make it up !!!
If I say something about my side, in my personal life.. I can say that I am very lucky to have such great and so wonderful friends from both.. girls side and boys side too , and confess that's a big Pleasure, a big Gift from God.. so I'm very thankful to my LORD to have friends.. thank you my Lord for this big Grace in my life .. cause i consider that having some good, honest and true friends in your life means having a big Grace..
On other hand, my friends and I consider our friendship as well as Brother-sister Hood in Allah..my friends and I are trustworthy, supporters , loyal , helpful and honest to each other.. they always encourage me, always there for me. they are my real Treasure in this world.. so I believe that: to have good & true friends in this life means to have a Rock in yr life.
Finelly,
I conclude the whole Issue that friendship is not like any other word, at least to me.. because it's not easy to find true friends in these days of Our life which most of people seeking only for their personal benefits no matter what, which most of people losing their values, selling their souls, and becoming more material ones!!!
Although it's not easy ,in same time it's not impossible ,Although there were a lot of bad example ones of friendship around me all the way ,but eventually , I found such value friends, so I can say : I believe FRIENDSHIP is kind of saint word, but people are not Saints..!!!! ^_^
Written By:
Sam Binzoa
Sana'a -- Yemen
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